Saturday, April 20, 2013

Take back America, we are #BostonStrong


As I see the years pass, I am often disheartened with the things I have witnessed and the direction I see things going in. I have allowed myself to be changed in a way I don't like because of it and it is time to stop. The following paraphrases parts of others writings, as a call to action by all Americans.  In times like these, I want to encourage the spread of love rather than hate and revenge, however, make no mistake about it, that does not mean I can or will accept that which is harming and dismantling this society or country from that which our forefathers built, and we must now reestablish and maintain.

Unacceptable events in our American society in recent months and years were not caused by religion; other countries did not do it; guns were not the cause of people, including children dying; an ethnicity did not do this – marginalized, sick individuals did this.  That's who needs to be dealt with. We don't needs to change our gun control laws, we just need to enforce our laws. None of us can even fathom the pain that parents, families and friends of those who's lives have been lost or maned because they just happened to be in the path of a monster criminal at the wrong time... monster criminals don't follow the laws or play by societies rules! It does not help to change the rules good, honest, level headed people already follow.  Find the core problems and fix them.

Instead of seeking revenge and perpetuating hate, let’s find ways to personally extend our hands to those around us who may be in pain, who may feel alone, who may feel disconnected from the rest of us and do what we can to welcome them into our communities.  That said, we should not be ignorant to those potential monster criminals that will use our own rules to hide behind.  Know that if you cross the line or even push to the boundaries of the line, societies hand will not be there to help you because it is also educated enough to crush you if necessary.  Tolerance is a two way street.  If you expect me to be tolerant of your beliefs, remember first, you must be tolerant of mine.  Most recently, kudos to the emergency responders and persons working the Boston Marathon case as a show of strength, capability and force when someone crosses the line.  Thank you for shutting down the city, mass transit and telling people to stay home while you identified, tracked down and captured one 19 year wayward young man that has forever negatively changed so many people.  That said, banning the sale of pressure cookers is not and will not be the solution to the problem, nor will it help in the healing for all the innocent victims of April 15, 2013.  As our forefathers before us, we must work to resolve the problems in our society today, and not the symptoms brought forth because of cancers within it.

God bless everyone affected by recent events that have come to our American streets, including any of the very misguided individuals that may be responsible. However, make no mistake about it, this is the United States of America, founded on a core set of rights, freedoms and laws... follow them.  We are not a third world country...  we are Americans.  We do not accept a way of life that allows violence in our streets.  Justice will and can be served without, preferably without any more loss of life.

Awesome show of capability #BostonStrong.


Saturday, April 13, 2013

The Power of Love...

Yesterday was a special day...  not really very exciting, more or less a quiet day, but 3 things happened within the span of an hour that made the whole day worth it.  It all started shortly after noon, I received a text message, out of the blue from a dear friend, I rarely get to see.  It was short and simple:

"Happy Friday Dan! You're such a dear friend!  I love you! Stay true to your divine heritage... You come from the best"

So short, so powerful, and just what I needed today. A dear friend... a friend that is there for me, despite my shortcoming.  I know that and it makes this friend so special to me.

I love you!  Nearly brings tears to me eyes.  I know it is an unconditional love, not judgmental.  I was in such need to hear and feel that love.

A reminder to turn back to God and back to my roots.  Duly noted Becca.  I also note you keying in on that and I'm beginning to remember I need to rearrange my priorities.

Ten minutes later, I get an email from another friend in response to a request I made to use some of his published materials (he's an author, mentor, key note speaker who has worked around the world)...  he said:
"use anything, any time in any way ….I LOVE YOU!!"

Again...  I LOVE YOU!!!  This is a very special friend to me... I wish I could work with him more, his life seems to be the life I have always strived to have.  An amazing family, loving wife, I believe a personal relationship with God, well respected, well educated and living what I'd call...  the good life.  Don't get me wrong, I have tons of amazing great things in my life...  but I strive to be better, and to mean to someone else, what Kirk means to me...  and I love you too man.

Lastly, although a typo...  Someone else said "I love you... ", meaning to say, "I love your... ", but I'm taking it and running with it as a third.

The power of love...  Celine sang it best...


I hope love strikes your inner being today and every day....


Thursday, April 11, 2013

Sit the Goons... we need skilled, disciplined players

Boston Bruins leading scorer Brad Marchand was injured in Wednesday night's game against the New Jersey Devils. He was elbowed by Devils defenseman Anton Volchenkov for which Volchenkov was immediately given a five-minute major for elbowing and a game misconduct (ejection). Marchand was unable to leave the ice under his own power and could not return to the game. 

I don't believe the Bruins have provide any definitive information yet other than he has sustained a concussion and more details would be forth coming. Unnamed sources say he is out indefinitely.

The NHL Department of Player Safety announced this afternoon that Volchenkov had been suspended four games for the elbow. He was also fined $91,891.88, which is the maximum allotment allowed under the collective bargaining agreement.

Do you think that is enough? I don't, here's why, and I'd like your support.

It's not that he injured another player... it is that he injured another player with an illegal hit... one could say, with intent to injure. In this case, an intentional hit to the head. He received a major penalty (5 minutes) and a game misconduct plus the additional sanctions the league felt were appropriate. Marchand was also out the rest of the game... will likely be out at least 4 games Volchenkov is... and then some... maybe the rest of the season and playoffs. Seems that the Bruins will come out on the short end of the stick in the long run on this one.

My suggestion: I a player causes an injury with an illegal hit... that player gets the automatic game time penalties, as he got... however, the additional league sanctions should include suspension from all play, including practice, until the injured player returns to action... then, the additional sanctions begin. So, if Marchand would be out for the rest of the year, so is Volchenkov. If Marchand plays the first game next season, then Volchenkov starts his 4 game suspension. Sort of akin to public hangings... players might think twice about the hits being made out there. Oh, and if Marchand never returns to play because of the injury, Volchenkov is gone too... for good. We don't need goons playing the game, we need skilled player that can play with discipline.

Voice your support... Tweet your support using #sitthegoons


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